Husband quit Final Fantasty and is Angry

I was looking at the withdrawl symptoms and wow : He has almost all of those ! Except for the crying one, he never ever crys.  He will never ever admit he is an addict, if i even try and talk to him about these things his temper flys off the handle at me ! I mean he screaming so loud the other night i know sons could hear it across the house.   He was saying of he had to give up his game they had to give up theirs,  yes they play on Xbox alot, probably too much, they are 26 and 24, but i do not think they are addicts, they go out , go to movies, ect.. I cant even get my husband to do that !   He came home the other day and i seen glitter on his shirt, i was just teasing and said have you been playing in glitter ? and he comptley flew off the handle ! said i was accusing him of an affair ?  How was asking him that accusing him of an affair ??     He quit the game because we were arguing all the time, so now he is just mad all the time .  So i dont know after reading all that stuff, should i just let him go back to it and live my life?

Well your right, he went back anyway, I checked our data on the phone bill and wow, he used almost 2GB just yesterday at work, he never used that much playing Final Fantasy, I checked his phone after he went to sleep, he has a new game on there now, same kind of role playing game as Final Fantasy, but he has been playing per our phone bill since he said he deleted the other game. I did the sorta detach with love thing when he came home , i had cleaned the house, i was just sitting there staring at him, then look away he couldnt look me in the face, then he just said whats is your problem? I said not a thing, I cant write him a letter or email i have tried that on other things and he blows up ! and he would blow up for sure, I have to say something or he is going to use up all our data on the phones and there are 5 of us that share it but i dont know how without a huge fight.   He will accuse me of spying on the data but he tells me to watch our sons data , but now he is using it all, i am spying ??  I have already been accused of that !  He is just not playing it at home because he dont want me to find out, or he is doing it when he goes in the restroom.

My son cant afford his own plan he is in college, plus my husbands mom is on the plan so she cant afford it either she lives with us on the other end of the house.  I have tried talking to her about this but of course she makes excuses for him too.  I find it so hard to just walk away if you still love someone?  But they in this time are being so mean and uncaring,  he comes home (due to he not playing at home just at work cause it hiding it) and sits across from me and just shuts his eyes or acts like he is falling asleep in the chair, its like oh well he rather not talk to me.   He said yesterday about mothers day were we going out (we never do) or does he HAVE to cook,  i said you dont have to do anything, i said i can cook i did it last year, he said well they all (meaning kids) should be doing it. wow !  He is the only one who knows how to cook out on the grill, but it was like i was making him do it ??

My kids can cook, they usually do all the cooking during the week, so its not like they dont know how.  I did send him an email like one of the sample ones on here, told him i wanted my husband back ect., (because he sits in the kitchen after work and just shuts his eyes and wont talk since he dont play it at home, he is doing it at work which can cost him his job !.)  and well he turned it around on me, he said well when did you buy me those energy pills? Maybe i am tired and need sleep ?   He is the one who watches TV until 10PM and has to get up at 4AM and thats my fault ? He wanted those energy pills.  I guess the blame will always be on me no matter what.

Thats ok i can see where you thought that.  Mothers day was horrible, apparently he has deleted all of his games Friday and he came home from work and from what i put in the email he was not happy about ! The part where they use it to escape from stress, ect.. yeah well he blew up , turned red in the face, i almost thought he was going to punch something which he has never done, and said his stress level is beyond stress, but what he said he is stressed over makes no sense -example one son is wanting to move out for college which he has done before ( no big deal wasnt last time) , just stuff makes no sense.   Then Mothers Day he snapped at me every time he got a chance, then he got into with the older daughter she is 32, not good, so sons just went to their rooms.  It was like wow, he has always had a temper and like you said walking on eggshells alot before games, now its even worse! 

He had been chatting with (he told me a guy) from NZ from Final Fantasy when he was playing it before, yeah i dont think it was a guy, i seen an email on his phone where he sent email to them subject was Enjoy and it was something called ME ( him), email was pedals . dont sound like a guy to me, the email came back as no good, thats after he deleted the game, but what dont make any sense to me is he made another gmail with that persons name in his gmail on his phone and it said welcome to final fantasy but game is not on his phone.  Why would you make email in that persons name?  i dont get it,  passwords are changed you cant see it anyway,  but i have already stopped trying to see anymore, started talking to my bank making sure cant access saving with debit cards and i will slowly move money.  But weird thing is he is always looking strangly at my phone ?  I never even play on my phone, text except to my daughter. and he can look anytime he wants.  Yesterday morning he work me up before he left for work as always, waiting for me to put on my shoes, and he was behind me whistling under his breath like any day now as in hurry up, he has never done this in all years we been married? Now he has his peference in how is T shirts are hung up, he said his pefernece, he has never had a pefernece in that !

Well I dont think the person from NZ is a girl, i think he gave his game and access to  due to he had all that money on it,plus gave them a gmail account as well, kinda odd i think tho to do that for a man tho.  He still is VERY snappy at me.  We went to get food this weekend, went in his car, usually go in my truck, i seen stuff all over that car! He has a mini boom box he said he got to take to work, then why is it in his back seat. Car is a mess.  So yesterday i cleaned out my truck and was picking up few things in yard and when he got home i said dont lock your car i am going to clean it out due to moutain dew bottles all over place ect,  his mom was trying to talk to him, no way that was happening he stood over me like a hawk right inside the door, he said what you dont like the way my car is?  I said you clean my truck when its a mess and i dont say anything, i am getting all these bottles and receipts out, he snapped at me and said they are only gas receipts ( which i could see they were not ) he still would not leave the car door.  He had a box from CVS that looked like perfume but he took all the lables off, i didnt ask, i said i dont want receipts in trash i going to tear them up due to credit card numbers and i going to use bag to clean out my purse tomorrow,  oh no, he took it and put in what we call burn barell for later,  i gonna go see later this morning to see if he got it which i am sure he did.