Hi all, I’m so new to this but here goes. My husband who was not a gamer the first nine years of our marriage got into Vikings war of clans two years ago. He spends money on this game, sometimes it’s a little, sometimes it’s quite a bit. Well this last week it was more than ever. Sooo, I snooped on his phone last week as he slept (wrong I know but I was at my wits end and did). He has an online girlfriend on another continent that he chats with. They send kissy face emojis and sag I love you, we were meant to be together, just devastating stuff, though no sex talk. I screenshot this and texted it to myself because I knew he’d just delete the game and chat I figured I only asked. I understand that I have been cheated on, this is very real to me. He claims it’s not real and he’s so sorry and that nature of stuff. The girl chats “I love you” “I wish I could help you at work” “are we still gonna marry”. WHAT??? Then she asks if he’s gonna send whatever he promised in the game, I guess stuff they use on the game that my husband is paying for. I don’t know exactly what I’m looking for by posting this, maybe I feel it helps the hurt. Anyone been here, on either side?
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