I am so glad to see that there are places that I can reach out to with this issue. My son is 24, living at home with no job and is not going to school.. I husband of 23 years passed away almost three years ago..we have no income now..and he is not looking for a job..I have another child (adult) at home who is 19 but she had medical issues and is trying to go back to school.. My issue is that he is not helping..lost his car..didnt really seem to care... He is getting people to mail him new hard drives, new video cards..come on these are 200.00 items..I looked them up..and he is NOT paying for them..I seen the receipt from these items..coming from ebay..seems strange to me.. We are living with my fiance..and he is fed up also ..he works..I am disabled..but do what I can around here... But my son ..is now to the point where his bedroom is never clean..he doesnt even take showers.. I cant tell u the last one he had..must have been weeks ago...he hasnt shaved..he is in the same clothes for a week now.. I have tried all I can...he sleeps all day..and up all nite.. I have taken the router..since he is wireless..at night..but that is such a pain ....to baby a 24 year old..like he is two..I emailed him..texted his phone..which we pay for..I talked to him..... he does very little..and is about to get kicked out..since he is not helping at all... like I said he does a few small things around here...and then thats it.. Occasionally we get him out of his room..he seems great..happy ....funny.. then back to his zone.. and oddly enough ...I sent him to college for game design..he loved playing games back in 2004 NOT addicted then...so i thought why not..let him make an great income doing what he loved...big mistake.. I have tried to help him..get jobs..at least building web pages..for freelance..I cant get him to do the work..I asked and asked and asked...
I am at my last straw.. please help!!!!!!! Please