I am married for 20 years, for the last six months my husband has been play mmorpg. In January he admitted to me that he had been having an online emotional affair with a woman in the game. This led to him flying out to meet her to see if it was "real" between them. He came home saying he wanted our marriage, which led to months of up and downs to where we are today which is that he says he is numb and has no feeling, yet doesn't want to leave or have me and the boys leave. We have 3 boys ages 23, 16, 13 who all live at home. I have tried the whole begging and pleading only to be told I was controlling and a harping. Last weekend he told me he plays because he doesn't know how to deal with me, this sent me into a spiral of qquestioning if I am really that hard to get along with. I am having a hard time dealing with this because I have made taking care of him and my children my life. I am a educated, fun loving woman who now feels like my life has been a waste. I'm not sure what to do or how to get thru this.
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