Annoyed Frustrated and fed-up!!!

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jenda30
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Annoyed Frustrated and fed-up!!!

I try not to rant about my husbands game addiction but sometimes I have to vent or I feel like I will go crazy!!! Well thing finally came to a head once again last week when my husband left his facebook account open on his "fake account" for his Forces of War game so of course I couldn't resist to take a peek. And what do I find?? About ten strippers he has sent friend request to!!! I lost it, just 3 months ago I find some online relationship he was having with a women on KiK that he met through the game. So I completly freaked out and called him at work and told him I was going to delete his accounts and the game that I have had enough!! And his response dead serious was if you do that you can pack your sh** and get the F--- out I will divorce you! It was a shock to me that he could even utter those words.
He refuses to admit that he has done anything wrong, he says oh its just for my fake account I have to have friends on the account. Well if that were the case why do they have to be strippers!! I just can't believe it has come to this we have a daughter a life or at least we did. I think now he is more on the Kik chat than the game! I didn't delete the game or his accounts because I knew he really would leave everything behind for it. I feel so disrespected and hurt it won't stop no matter what I do or say! Where am I suppose to go from here?? All my trust that I had for him is gone and now he is trying to turn the tables and say that I am trying to destroy our relationship by being to controlling. I feel like we are on a downward spiral.

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Hi jenda, I must say that as

Hi jenda, I must say that as a game addict I am moved by your story.

I cannot give you any specific advise of what to do apart from reading other stories and in particular stickies like this one http://www.olganon.org/?q=node/4233 that actually do have advises for what you can do to change the situation.

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 Thank you so much for the

Thank you so much for the link. I know that through the grace of God I will get through this. Its such a blessing to have a site like this to know I am not alone in all of this.

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I would do whatever I could

I would do whatever I could to protect myself and my child. Especially in the area of finances.

It sounds like your husband is using horrible judgement and there is no reason to think that it won't continue.

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Hi Jenda...I'm glad you

Hi Jenda...I'm glad you found us. Being an addict myself, I can tell you that I was totally focused in on my gaming life and my gaming "love" relationships. I will tell you that it slowly happened...me becoming addicted. One thing led to another and the case in my mind was built that my husband was incapable of loving me the way I wanted to be loved. He could never love me like my relationship inside my game. THAT person knew me. Yeah, right!

Now that I've awakened to what a lie all that was, I realize how I've harmed my marriage and destroyed the trust between my husband and I. Even still I feel like logging on. That's how addicted these games are and how we addicts are.

Please keep coming back and I hope your husband wakes up before it's too late.

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Thank you so much for your

Thank you so much for your words of advice. I will do those things I hate to even have to think that way but I know that I have to think with my head not just my heart.

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I hope your right that one

I hope your right that one day he will see it. Until then I know that all I can do is pray and continue working on taking care of myself and our daughter. Many blessings to you and your recovery.

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Thank you, Jenda for your

Thank you, Jenda for your blessings. I need them. I really hope he sees what he's doing. Honestly? If I hadn't felt backed into a corner I probably would not have wanted to make this change. I hit bottom. I think that's the only time we finally can go up. HUGS

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