I need some help and fast, but dont know what to do to get help for my bf. You see my bf and I have been together for a year and a half and for the first five months of our relationship, was great . He spent all his time with me and was very affectionate and romantic with me. It was going great and then once we got closer and serious about our relationship, I noticed that he was addicted to this computer game called WOW and that he would play for hours a day on this game. At first I was ok with it becasue he said that he rather play his game then hang out with his parents (he lived with them at the time), and if I wanted him to hang out with me, all I had to do is ask. He would do stuff with me when I asked but I want him to hang out with me becasue he want to and not have to ask him to hang out with me. I want him to do it on his own. I made a big mistake moving to Montana with him, but I did it because I love him sooo much and want to be with him. But his addiction is getting to become worse. On the weekends he will spend 15-20 hours playing WOW and then on the weekdays he will play as soon as he gets home from work and will play from 4pm-2am a night. Once he is playing his game he totally ignores me and wont spend anytime with me unless it is going out to eat or if I yell at him to go with me into Bozeman to get grocheries. He wont even go out with me to hang out with friends of family. He rather play his game them live in reality. I am a very social person who likes to talk and hang out with others, but cant becasue of him. Its no fun hanging out with other couples when your is not there with you. So I usually stay home with him and watch tv allday while he plays on the computer. I am getting sick of it and feel like he doesnt even want to hang out with me and that he is just using me. I do everything around the house. I cook, clean , pay bills and take care of his responsibilites for him while he sits on his ass all day and plays his game and trashes our place up. He expects me to be the maid and cater to his needs. But I am sick of it and am ready to tell him to leave, but I also care/love him sooo much that I want our relationship to work out. I feel that I put sooo much into this relatoinship to just end it like that. Plus he wont even tough me or be affactionate with me at all. He wont kiss me nor tell me that he loves/cares about me. I want my bf back. I feel like I lost him to this game and that he is living in this fanasty world and that he has no clue how to live in the real world. Its getting bad and I need help fast. What should I do. Should I talk to him about this addiction or leave him.
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