HELP!!! My husband is on his phone ALL the time playing clash of clans. We have been married 7 years and have 3 wonderful children together. A little over a year ago, we decided to cave and get smart phones. Shortly after we got our new phones, he downloaded clash of clans and was playing it quit a bit. Wasn't too concerned at first. Well, now things have changed. I am VERY Concerned, aggrivated, sad, not happy at all.
He get's on it first thing in the morning, while I get our kids ready for school. Then once he is done checking it or whatever, he will finally make his own lunch for work. Not sure how much he is on it at work, since he is a driver, I would hope not much at all. Once he walks in the door from work he is on his phone playing. Barely says "hi" to me and the kids. And he will put it down, just long enough to eat, then he is back on it. He will stay on it till midnight. Give or Take.
It's frustrating because I do ALL the house chores, laundry, dishes, cook meals, clean house, grocery shop, everything. But now, I am doing outside chores as well. Cuz he is on his **** phone. I used to mow the yard once a year, if he needed me too. Well, this year I mow most of the time. He has maybe mowed twice this year. I pulled all the weeds out the grass. I usually don't do yard work unless it's landscaping. But I feel like our yard is not looking as good because of clash of clans.
Our kids, ask for help for something, and he tells them "just a minute" then totally forgets about them. Or they will be playing outside with neighbors and I'm out front watching. And he will be in the backyard on his phone. Not awhare of anything going on. It's to the point that I cry myself to sleep at night. Once in awhile I will fight with him about it, and he snaps back at me saying that I am always on my phone. Which is not true, I will get on it and browse a little if I'm bored cuz he is on his phone, and it's a commercial on t.v. He will laugh at me and say it's only a game!!!!! Ya, it is and it's taking over his life.
My biggest eye opener was when we were on vacation, we went out to eat and we were all done eating. Kids and I left the restaurant while he was still sitting at our table playing clash of clans. Another customer sitting at a table by ours, saw me stare at my husband and get ****y and storm out with the kids. My kids and I are vying for attention. Anything from him. Help, conversation, laughter, anything would be nice. But instead we see his face glued to his phone.