My husband is addicted to gaming, when ever I say anything about the time he spend's on the computer he gets very mad and we argue, he says he could be in a bar or running around on me, he says at least he,s at home, which is true, however before we got the computer we would spend alot of time together. we have split up once and almost again several weeks ago, he bought me a internet game for Christmas and is trying to get me hooked so I will leave him alone, he calls it his family and talks about them in our life like their a part of us. there is several girls that play and he talks with them during the game, he has team speak. I don't like sitting in the other room alone while he playing games with other women, I know it is( or I think it is good people ,I can hear everything he says when I'm home, But I have caught him in so many lies I can hardly trust him,( lies about spending money lots of it on computer parts, time he spent on the game, saying he doesn't talk to the girls unless he has too).If I say something like that is not your family, He'll say yes it is,there is alot more stuff involved,I love Him very much, What should I do. I thought about gaming myself and stop cooking and doing for him and let him look at the back of my head, Is this a good idea. maybe if I ignore him he will feel as neglected as I do, What do you think on this idea.
Edited by: daputtykat at: 1/13/06 18:16