For the last year, my wife can't stop dumping money in GOW and AWE. I snoop around her phone and have caught her 3 times spending money that we don't have. She has secretly spent over ~$2000 on the game in the last few months. We are falling behind on bills. She denied it the first 2 times, till I caught her, then she told me she can't trust me for snooping. She has her phone pw protected to the bone, including apps. Last conversation we had was if she continued to spend money, we were liquidating and getting a divorce. That was 5 days ago and she has spent $140 so far. Should I confront her? Or should I just walk away? I have a full house, 20 year old daughter with boyfriend with toddler and soon a new newborn. 15 year old son. Two 5 year old twins. She says I'm trying to control her. She doesn't realize that she spends 90% of her spare time on the game. We hardly ever talk without her simultaneous glued to the game. She blames everything on me, saying I don't see what I'm doing to her. The older kids are aware of situation, it's really sad for the twins. She has many of the symptoms listed on your website. She will go into fits of rage, followed by fits of depression. She defends the game, saying that not the problem, that the problem is me. After all that, she says she loves Me and convinces me to stay; I have tried to leave her several times.but I do love her and it has allowed us to stay together. At this point I think it's better for the kids to take them out of this unstable environment. I am ready now to let go of her and try to make a satisfying life for the kids and i. But I have this glimmer of hope that by some miracle she will change and put me and her family first, followed by her financial responsibilities. She won't go to counseling, if I bring up the game she goes into defense mode and has an angry outburst. She just spent money today, I asked her and she flat out lied.our last fight tonight ended with her saying "the game makes me feel good, I would rather spend $500 on gow with my online friends than to throw a stupid party with food and drinks where I have cater to everyone watch over the drunks, and clean up the mess when everybody leaves". My intelligence tells me to flee, but my heart tells me till to stay. Did I mention she had a few online flings last year and I moved out for 5 months? We decided to make it work, but know I am not so sure. What else can she be lying about that I have yet to discover?