I am wanting a bit of advise with regards to a current situation that i am faced with, my husband games pretty much every free hour that he has if he isnt gaming he is sleeping, i have accepted that and started to detach. The part that is getting to me is i had a rule please do not play online with other women as it adds unnessassary stress on our relationship. I have asked him a few times about a women on their clan and he tells me he doesnt play with her, yet last night i heard him chatting about her, then i ask does he communicate with her directly and he stated no only on the group chat, yet i go onto his cell and there she is they have been chatting direct. I didnt read the messages as i was fuming with regards to the lies and hiding this from me. Am i crazy for feeling completely betrayed and that there is actually more to this as the other women is engaged but i mean then why hide it.
I am responsible for all in the house and with the kids ect and this is really sending my head spinning i really do not know what to do.