I recently moved out of the family home with my daughter who is 8months old because i recently discovered my partner of 7+ years was having an emotional relationship with another woman online through a game he plays on his phone. That was my wake up call to how bad his gaming really was and what has become of him playing the game -(cheating on me online). I was willing to move on and forgive him for having this online relationship with another woman if he was going to change and put effort in with me and our daughter give up the games. He wasnt willing to do this because playing his games is his firt choice and it makes him happy. He doesnt understand he has a problem and i cant live my life like this anymore. He is blaming me for our family being broken because i "went through his phone" when i should of talked to him about it first . The gaming got worse over time and i decided to see what was really going on so i looked at his phone and found out he was talking to another girl online telling her he loves her.
Im struggling to understand how he has picked the games over me and our daughter he has no interest in me anymore and is willing to give up our family being together so he can keep his games. Im so lost over all of this because i cant understand how anyone could pick a game over having and family.
I forgot to add this woman is married with 3 kids and lives in another country wtf