My husband has always enjoyed gaming however over the past few months it really has become excessive, i am currently trying to beat my reliance on alcohol which stems from the frustration and loneliness that i constantly feel as well as very over whelmed with the daily responsibilities that i have to maintain as he is not interested.
He spends every free hour that he has gaming, i am understanding to an extent, however he has no time for me or the kids and would much rather spend his time gaming till early hours of the morning.
This last weekend i woke up at 2:45am to him shouting as he had got up couldnt sleep so goes straight to gaming online. that was a true wake up call for me as to the extent that he wants to game.
I am truely at a stup as to what to do or how to handle this as he does not believe that he has a problem, he constantly tells me i am the problem and that he games all the time because of me which is soul crushing.
Any advise would be great, he also is not open to counselling so i dont know how to handle this, as i am exhausted with fighting this on going battle that i dont seem to think i will ever win and i can not afford to go on my own.