Hi! I am a wife of seven years to a gamer. We have two kids under 5. He's always been a gamer, had to go to 12th grade twice bc he failed the first time for missing so much school due to gaming competitions. I thought it would be a thing he would learn to manage as he got older. No. He goes to work, comes home and spend about 3-4 hours (most days) with us until the girls go to bed and then it's on his computer/Xbox until 12-1 am on days he has to work and 4-5 on days he doesn't. EVERY weekend hell sleep until 12-until I finally yell enough to get him up and then he's on his game. I am at my wits end. When we fight about it he blames me saying I never try spending time with him. I do, I ask him to go places when the girls and I go somewhere, I try and get him to do thing with me. When I tell him that he then blames his gaming on the fact that I don't show him affection or want to have sex with him. That's true but it's bc I don't even see him as my partner anymore, just as a roommate that watches the kids sometimes. I don't even know what to say anymore. I have moved into our guest room bc I am just done, and tired of hearing him yell on a headset till 1am every night. I don't believe in divorce but I don't want my girls growing up honking this is the way a man should be.