My husband plays video games from the time he gets off of work from the time her goes to sleep usually 2 am- ish on weekdays longer on weekdays sometimes there is an hr or so break i feel almost completely abandoned and heart broken am i not enough? am i to boring? More importantly are oyr kids not enough? Our son 5 yrs old already asks why daddy doesnt spebd time with him and gets sad. What am i to do about? I have spoken to him calmly i have yelled i have cried i cant get through to him. He is from New York and says thats the only way he can " hangout" wirh his friends but why does " hanging out" with friends need to be an everyday 5-6 hour on the weekdays 12-14 hours on the weekend thing? How is that ok to him? Is there any hope if he is adamant that he doesbt have a problem i love him but im close to the end of my rope i wabt him to be a good dad and i want to feel like i am important to him that we dont come second to his online world what do i do to get through to him?