My husband had played a game a few years ago , and he hid it all the time, i finally found out why, he was having an online affair, i found out because after he left for work i found the game and looked at the hidden chat. I confronted him about it and he got angry with me ? Well now he was playing Final Fantsy XV on his phone, at first it was normal, then he started adding 100.00 to the phone bill and i had to get him to stop, then 200.00 a week came missing out of the bank, he swore it was not for the game but again was angry for me asking. He kept his phone on him all the time, played while we eat, never looking up, chatting all the time, played while laying in the bed, he even would hang off the side of the bed where i cant see what he was doing. He would have his phone in bathroom charging and stand there playing it, if i went in to take a shower and he heard me he came in to take his phone out of there. He said he private chats with a few, I got up one night but of course all private chats had been deleted. He started playing it at work which he can be fired for , they are not allowed to do that, i confronted him about that , he tried to lie and say he only plays at lunch, i explained i know he plays it as soon as he gets there, at 9am, 11am , noon and as soon as he gets off. He said to me well i HAVE too . Why does anyone HAVE to ? It always started a fight and it got turned around on me, I explained i looked up the game and when you have your wifi and data on that game can and will turn on your voice recorder and they can hear stuff in the background. He was furious with me. He had also told him mom he was going to start living his life for himself ? I asked about that and got some lame answer. He does nothing around the house ect.. Well he got mad and deleted the game , now he is acting mad at me, snapps at me all the time, has not much to do with me just like when he was playing the game but worse. He asked me to ask my son what was that game people are playing that you hear voices, I dont want him playing that, i looked that game up and it says if you have any depression or anger that game can be BAD ! It is some demon game, he has had depression in his childhood. Dont even say councling for him because he dont belive in them at all. I cant even get him to go to church. I took him with me once when we first got married and he accused the first person that walked up to shake his hand of having an affair with me ? That all stems back from because when we were engaged , he tried to get his ex girlfirend back and lied to me saying was on a business trip . So now what ? Give him game back ? Let him wallow in self pitty ?
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