Have posted before which was the usual "partner spends too much time on the computer and I feel neglected". Since then there was a break through in which during a year I thought he had gone cold turkey (he admitted being an addict and said he shouldn't play anymore) he had actually been playing the whole time. He's actually quit cold turkey this time but has been struggling with life stresses without the escapism. He was honest and said that during a rough patch he did log on to steam but didn't play. My problem now is that he is showing a lot of signs of depression which he is going to the doctors for. And also worryingly he has convinced himself that he's read enough sites saying that he shouldnt go cold turkey he should limit his gaming. Where I'm banging my head against the wall is that he tried limiting his gaming for 9 years....funnily enough it never worked and we nearly broke up multiple times because he has no interest in anything else when he's gaming. He's kind of half present. But trying to explain to him that deliberately going back to limiting gaming will just end up in the same position he always is is getting me nowhere. He is ADAMANT that this four months has changed his brain. Our problem is that we are married now and I cannot be in the house if he decides to experiment with limiting again but he doesn't want me to move out....we are at a miserable impasse and I'm hoping a doctor may be able to help but this isn't something the average GP has probably dealt with and I don't want any bad advice from someone that isn't sure to mess this up! Anyone been through the same? I understood there would be withdrawal but this is hard because of the depression symptoms as well!