Been with my boyfriend for 3 years, one year living together and he's always been a gamer. I used to game as well but I have school and work and kind of just grew out of it. He got a new PC around January and it's slowly gotten worse. Now, he doesn't even hang out with me anymore. I have to ask to see if we can hang out and he says yes or no. Sometimes, we'll have a date planned but on the day of he'll say he doesn't feel well and spend the entire day on his computer.
We don't sleep together anymore either. And if he goes out with his friends he'll come home say a quick hello and go straight to his computer. He rarely goes out with his friends anymore and blames it on me that his friends aren't calling or texting him anymore. Sure in the beginning of when we moved in together I wanted to hang out and do new things all the time, but I don't mind if he goes out with them anymore. It's been over a month since he has gone anywhere with me! I love him dearly but I can't do this much longer. He gets angry whenever I bring all this up and I honestly don't know how to talk to him without getting angry myself. How can I speak to him about this without us both getting upset?