i have been married for 6 years and my husband has been gaming since about 2 months after we got married. I now know that he has always loved computer games- he is very competitive and says he loves it because of the competition. He likes to play games with friends from work and HAS to play every night or else he is an absolute monster. We now have one sweet little baby. Guys, I have tried EVERYTHING I could think of over the course of 6 years and it obviously didn't work. I have felt extreme emotions of annoyance, desperation, loneliness, and anger. A little about my husband- he is a wonderful father and he is extremely good with people. He is a very hard worker and never neglects his responsibilities. I have so much fun with him. But every night at 8pm when we put our baby down, he has to play his game. He plays probably an average of 4 hours every single night. He is a very rational and logical man until it comes to his games, he becomes emotional, angry and childish. I feel so hopeless. I definitely have said very hurtful things and have lashed out in desperation. He tells me that he wishes I didn't feel like he was choosing his game over me because he loves me, but this is his hobby and he loves it too. He tells me I am also selfish when I tell him to not play/choose me over the stupid game. I feel so incredibly lonely but also like I should get over it since he makes sure to ask every night and doesn't shirk responsibilities. I honestly hate the gaming so much and I don't feel like I will ever be happy unless he stopped playing completely. Please help me.