I-Phone game addiction

My husband has been had been into computer games since I first met him - however in the beginning I was more important then games...and he only played at nights when I slept. Then about 5 years ago he started during day times, on weekends, venenings - later even at our office - played Star Craft - whenever he could. About half a year ago he decided to quit Starcraft - he said for me - btu really I suspect it was because there are so many youger players with so much mroe time on their hands - that he did not win the game as often any mroe as he would have liekd to. I though - well - whatever the reason he quit...it´s great that he did.

But then he found a new game...on his I-Phone - this is worse then the computer - it´s portable...he can play it anywhere, any time...he can pretend he´s checking e-mails, he can pretend to listen to me or our son...but he´s in teh game...and when he´s not in the game he chats about it with his game "team", or he uploads teachign sessions or watches suggestions on u tube....he goes to bed late,never sleeps enough, goes to work late (says he can do that casue he´s the boss) - well I am also the owner of teh firm and I have to take over mroe and mroe while also takign care of our son, our home, chores etc. All his and my family has already had a chat about this gaming with him...he ignores it, laughs about it. When I talk to him...and I have a million times, he blames me...says I don´t give him enough attention, love ...how can I give him love when he´s never actually with us....he gets nervous if he can´t check his phoen for more then 10 minutes...he´d rather not sleep, not shower, not brush his teeth then miss anything that happens with the game.

I don´t know what to do any more...this is not only affecting our family life, but slowly it´s creeping into his work performance and I am afraid...