I did not think I would be here again. Instead of dating someone who was addicted to drugs and alcohol (my ex), I am now with a man who is in denial about his excessive gaming habits and thinks I am trying to control him, take him away from what he loves to do, change him and blowing things out of proportion (just to name a few things that he has said). I feel alone in this situation. I see how his family operates and it's very similar to his pattern of behavior. I'm in an interesting situation because I moved in with him and his parents to save money and become more financially secure. I did not know what I was signing up for six months ago. Fast forward six months and I have six months left until I reach my financial goals and have an apartment picked out. I am not sure if him moving with me is the best choice or if I should just go the next step alone. I go through periods of time where I want to make it work and I try to ignore his problem and focus on his good traits. He says things in the relationship would be just fine, if only I wouldn't complain. I know this is bs, but it's hard to here and feel alone in the first place. It is now close to NYE and we are giving each other the silent treatment because I yelled at him last night. He said he would not stay up late again and he did. He doesn't come to bed with me and we've discussed this. He's not keeping his end of the bargain here and I'm the bad guy because I bring it up. If only I just didn't complain. Please note, I am just saying what he is saying, I know this is all bs. He's in complete denial and how dare I feel any other way. Ugh. It is very exhausting, let me tell you.
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