My husband was addicted to Evony. I found out the full extent after he had already given it up but I took some positive steps to make sure that he will never go back. I wrote to a woman he had been flirting with. When she didn't reply I went to her facebook page and sent a copy of the confrontational letter to everyone of her relatives with a message about how her actions had harmed my marriage and asking them to forward it. Yes, I did hear from her after that. I made it clear what I thought of her. When she blocked me I sent the next letter through her office communications system to be given to her. I put in enough humor and details to make sure that it would get passed around. I know this, she is sorry that she ever met my husband.
If he was still gaming everyone of his playmates would get the similar treatment. He gave me some crap about them saying hurtful things to me. Guess what, they don't defend each other and can't even do an effective job defending themselves. He mentioned my online reputation. I don't care what my reputation is in Evony world. I can live with being the "crazy b****" who will destroy the life of anyone who plays with my husband.
I also made sure that they know what ill regard he presently holds them in. I did not do anything wrong. If I shine a light on the misdeeds of his so called friends I have nothing to hide. It was very healing experience for me. In college I learned how to run political campaigns; It feels good to use what I know.