Hello I'm here to point out your mistakes.
1. Gamers aren't interested in becoming priests - lay off the God stuff.
2. The forum layout is AWFUL, look at the huge Welcome/Our Mission boxes that are on every page.
3. Anyone giving advice here is just another loser, if you want to really help people, open up an 'extreme' forum where people can ridicule addicted gamers, which in my opinion would make them want to quit, rather than having some middle aged housewife who has nothing better to do telling them that gaming is the devil and it will ruin your life.